Archive - My Safe Love Project

Real Love Won’t Make You Check Your Phone

Breadcrumbing, hypervigilance, and the lie that love should feel like suspense: how to rewrite the pattern

Jul 2 •

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10 Romantic Movies That Taught Us Unsafe Love

What our favorite films taught us about love — and why messy doesn’t mean meaningful

Jul 1 •

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Why Your Brain Keeps Choosing Unsafe Love

And What It Really Means About You

Jul 1 •

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Your Body Isn’t Telling You the Truth — It’s Telling You Its History

Why familiar discomfort can feel like love, and how to rewrite its story.

Jul 1 •

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June 2025

Why Do I Only Want Them When They Pull Away?

The painful, addictive loop of craving distance: A nervous system echo of early attachment wounding.

Jun 26 •

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Out With Lanterns, Looking for Myself: 5 Signs of Self-Abandonment

How to spot the subtle ways you disappear in love — and the quiet return to self.

Jun 25 •

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The Lie That Love Is Enough

Because sometimes love exists — but safety doesn't.

Jun 16 •

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The Nervous System Is the Real Matchmaker

Your body knows before your mind does.

Jun 16 •

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Why Emotional Safety Is More Important Than Love

The nervous system doesn’t lie. Love without safety isn’t love.

Jun 16 •

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This is My Safe Love Project.

Jun 16 •

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